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Stuck? Try Playing with a Child
October 10, 2022
Children everywhere… play to have fun, not deliberately to educate themselves, but education is the side effect for which the strong drive to play evolved.
-Peter Gray, Pscyhologist

In a recent New York Times interview, cartoonist Lynda Barry shared, "I noticed that whenever I was in some big creative jam, it was an interaction with a kid that got me out of it. They can really help you when you get stuck. When I started teaching at the university, I couldn’t understand why all the grad students were so miserable. I could pick out the grad students just by the way they walked in the room, you know? These are people that are at the top of their game. They’ve already shown that they want to work. They’re interested in something. Why is it acceptable that they’re all miserable? …Then I thought, it is this laser focus on getting one particular thing done. This feeling that unless you’re working on it at all times, things are going to be bad. That kind of focus doesn’t set the conditions for insight or discovery. It’s like somebody yelling: ‘Relax! Relax!’ It’s never going to work. But the kids could shift the students’ perspectives in really helpful ways. I had my students copy what the kids were doing, or I got the kids to draw the answer to questions like, ‘What are microbes?’ And my students had to be on the floor with them working together. They had to try to get into their mind-set. It’s hard to explain, but it changes you. After you spend about 90 minutes with them, you just find that something has loosened up. You get away from that laser-focused, worrisome way of being."

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Kirsten Haugen · October 16, 2022
Eugene, OR, United States


Sarah, comments like yours are what I love about our Exchange community. Thank you for thinking so deeply about this and taking the time to share your insights. We need more people like you who reflect rather than absorb conventional wisdom. I will look at this and other quotes from famous and authoritative figures with a refreshed lens.

Sarah Becker · October 11, 2022
Curious Learners: Professional Development to Foster Teacher an
Cambridge, NY, United States


Hello,
My thoughts are in regard to the Eleanor Roosevelt quote: Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people - which I found troubling. The first problem comes from ranking minds when in early childhood education we aspire to look at the whole mind, the whole child, the whole educator. The second issue I see with this quote is “small minds discuss people.” While Roosevelt may have relegated discussing people to “gossip” we in ECE know that connections and relationships with people are the foundation upon which we build minds. In discussing people - not in gossip - but toward honoring the person - we gather understanding and further develop our own intellects.



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